Advice On Getting Your Boyfriend Back

Most of the advice that is so readily available on how to win back your ex-boyfriend is really not very good. When that advice includes begging him to take you back it really should not be considered as a viable option.



Other people will advise you to play games and try to make him jealous and though that may work, do you really want a relationship based on jealousy? Before you say you don't care remember that this type of relationship will not last. As soon as your guy knows he has you back or as soon as the old problems start to surface again your relationship will be over, again.



If the break up occurred through something you did then apologizing might be just the thing that is needed rather than mind games or trickery. Do not misunderstand, even if you were not entirely to blame chances are good that you did handle some things wrong. Apologizing cannot hurt.



If you did make mistakes and you are mature enough to acknowledge the fact then see this as an opportunity to make changes. By doing so you will not repeat past mistakes should you and your man find your way back to each other and therefore will spare each other more pain.



That one piece of advice on getting your boyfriend back is good even if the two of you fail to reunite. At least you will know what things not to do in your next relationship. Either way, you win if you take the time to figure out your mistakes and make changes.



When you do contact him to apologize, keep it short and sweet. Tell him you realize you made some mistakes and that you are truly sorry for any pain you may have caused him.



Do not resort to crying and begging and do not go into it with grand expectations of him taking you back right on the spot. It could be that he won't. He may need time to mull it all over and make up his mind about whether or not he wants to try again even with the new and more mature version of you.



If he doesn't want an immediate reconciliation then let him have the time and space he needs. Do not hound him while he takes the time to make up his mind. If you keep at him the chances are good that you will only push him further away and the situation will be irrevocably worsened.



While he has his space you need to move on with your life. Do not sit around waiting to hear from him. Do things that will make you feel good about yourself. Go shopping and do what you can to look amazing and get together with your friends. By just waiting for his call you will simply cause yourself unnecessary stress and time will appear to move frustratingly slowly.



Following the above advice will stand you in much better stead when it comes to getting your man back again rather than following the advice to play games and make him jealous. Ultimately it is all up to you so go do it!



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